What to do when a narcissist turns people against you.

 (15 minute You tube video, link below)

 The narcissist in my life is a DIL I am amazed how she has managed to turn so many people against me. I have granddaughters that wont speak to me and met some family at a shower and we clicked. When I contacted them later they refused to take my calls or answer my texts. The one girl told my son what a wonderful mother he has and how great I am.  

I made a huge mistake by moving into my sons house and letting my home go. I had to have a new roof and in my late 70s a lot of my savings were gone. 

The other evening I saw this article by Doctor Ramani and I was grateful to read it, it definitely explained what was going on. 
Sad part is I cant change anything yet. I have been trying to find a new place to live. So I wait, pray and try to make myself happy each day.

 Here is the link, hope you enjoy and gain some more awareness into this very unhealthy behavior.  (this is a 15 min you tube video)

 https://youtu.be/XOXhri6c4AA?si=tAhohKUq9a4oQw9O

 

 

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